Welcome to the next stop on the 2015 New Quilt Bloggers Blog Hop
It’s so exciting to be a part of this new quilting family and to get to know you. But first, you get to know me.
THE TEN-SECOND TOUR OF MY LIFE:
On a snowy day in 1965, me . . . two siblings, Alice and Bruce, … Emory & Henry College… newspaper reporter … married my high school sweetheart, Dave, … baby Nora … moving trucks … football football football . . . quilter … law school … lawyer … empty nest . . . blogger … modern quilt guild . . . new quilt bloggers blog hop … designing logos and blog buttons, oh my!.

I just received a mug rug from Nina With Freckles as part of a mug rug swap involving individual members of the Modern Quilt Guild.
THE LONG JOURNEY:
When I write about myself, it’s about what I do and less about who I am. Sounds odd since this is “Wanda’s Life Sampler.” I tend to focus on the details of the process, i.e. the craft, and I shy away from revealing anything intimate. There are no secrets on the web. But, if I want to share and interact with this community I must open up. It’s all Rated G, though, but you might find 50 shades of gray (lame quilter’s joke).
NO DIRTY LAUNDRY:
I started this blog because I was looking for a creative outlet. (FYI: menopause is not for girls). I followed a series of worksheets in a self-help book. I made a “vision board” and wrote a “purpose statement”:
My purpose is to feel brave, to be tenacious and curious, to be sure of what I believe, to be persistent, to rest, to be free, to act on a whim, to improvise, to be creative and to design, and to practice what I enjoy.
I enjoyed making the vision board more than I liked pursuing the things on the vision board (except maybe traveling). 
This discovery led me to start a blog. I had no idea what I wanted my blog to be or to say. I knew I wanted to put text and photos on “paper.”
I also had no idea the online quilting community existed. My first post about quilting was on September 4, 2013 and revealed my first leap into modern quilting with a quilt from the book, “Sunday Morning Quilts.” I quickly found the online quilting community and here I am giving you sewing advice.
A SEWING TIP:
Have you ever made a tote bag and when it’s not full, it falls over? The solution:

USE YOUR TOP STITCH FOOT (Bernina No. 5) to stitch each side and around the bottom. It gives stability to the tote. Divide the length of the bottom side seam, then measure over half that length from the middle seam. Press down the side. Stitch, setting the needle over about 5 notches. It creates a small seam down the side. Repeat with all four edges and the bottom, if you want.
Learning takes time. I use WordPress and there are so many options for themes and choices for fonts and menus. I was overwhelmed at first and I’ve been overwhelmed for the last two weeks trying to transform my blog for this blog hop. I admit a cried a few times, but it’s okay to ask for help — even from the Happiness Engineers at WordPress. NEED HELP? you bet I do. They will respond!
MY FAVORITE QUILT (designed by yours truly):
THE SECURITY ANSWERS (better than the ones from the bank):
- My Dream Vacation: Fly around the world in a balloon
- My Favorite Book: My Happiness Calendar where I record something every day that makes me happy
- My Least Favorite Chore: Washing dishes
- My Favorite Dessert: Key Lime Pie
- My Favorite Restaurant: Deep Run Roadhouse (barbeque)
MY QUESTION FOR YOU:
What would you put on your Happiness Calendar today?
DON’T FORGET: CHECK OUT THIS WEEK’S OTHER NEW QUILT BLOGGERS:
Beeing Sewcial,
Wanda
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I thoroughly enjoyed your gallery–especially Aerial. Also the feathered star. I love both modern and traditional designs.
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I go back and forth between traditional and modern designs as well. I somehow think it’s cool to be modern but sometimes a traditional quilt just feels like home.
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So nice to get meet you Wanda. I think a lot of people struggle with the how much do I give away online bit. When I started out, I ran a very technical blog, and not too many people were interested, yet it works really well for some people. There are so many things I’d like to say, but you’re right about not being able to take them back later. I’m still finding my voice, I suppose.
WordPress can definitely be overwhelming. Honesty, I still don’t know what half of the options do. Maybe I’ll talk to someone about it eventually. I just find it hard enough to make the time to quilt and write blog posts, that I spend very minimal time fussing with the layout.
The critiques were interesting. I’m just a little bit (or very blunt, and it’s part of me, not something I choose to be) and I think I may have unintentionally upset my critique group.
Hmm… As for the happiness calendar, it would ideally involve twelve hours of uninterrupted sleep, but that’s not feasible for at least a few days. I’m working on the hand finish for some binding I put on a quilt last week. It won’t be finished tonight, but getting towards that end is definitely moving me up the happiness scale.
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Jane, I bet you thought you were being helpful and they thought you were being mean. I like the idea of something moving up the happiness scale. I’d love 12 hours of uninterrupted sleep — sounds like heaven. I’ll have to get you to critique my quilt designs in progress. I could use a new perspective.
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I’d be happy to help. The critique thing can be very difficult. No matter how much you say that it’s only your opinion, some people take it very personally, and it’s especially hard to do it diplomatically when you’ve just met over email. I hope I didn’t say anything outright nasty (I do try and sensor myself for that) but I think I hit on a few insecurities.
I think generally there has to be a happiness scale. End points and destinations never worked for me on this front, because then things would have to stay static, and nothing does.
Let me know if you can’t find my email in our long list of group emails and I’ll put it in this chain. I’d love some feedback on things I have in mind too, so please let me know if you’d like to do a little back and forth.
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I know you don’t have much of it on this post, but I have to say how much I love your hand quilting! Your Mama Bear quilt is beautiful.
My happiness calendar would have to be that for the first time this year (!) I have the day to myself. I’m planning a very productive day – it might not happen, but sometimes a little alone time is just lovely, even just to potter about!
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A very productive day. I hope it worked and you got that alone time.
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Thanks for sharing your personal story, Wanda. I definitely have empty bags that fall over! I love that deep purple on Mama bear 🙂
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I’ve used that technique on fabric gift bags. Thanks for stopping by.
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Thanks for sharing a little glimpse of yourself with us 🙂 It’s been fun getting to know everyone. Your quilts are beautiful. I think I need to pencil in quiet evenings with my machine on my happiness calendar.
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Hi Wanda: I’ve enjoyed having this glimpse into your life. I’m also glad to hear I’m not the only one with technical issues. I have a bit more time to work on my blog which is a good thing because I am very slow at this kind of thing. I would love to see more of your hand quilting and I love your favourite quilt. On my happiness calendar I would like to spend more time sitting in my backyard working on e.p.p. and listening to the birds. Go Social Swarm!
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Whoops, that should be Sewcial Swarm!
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I’m so pleased to see that you joined Instagram. I look forward to what you have to share.
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Your Mama Bear quilt is so stunning, Wanda. And wow, what a powerful journey you created for yourself with your vision board. I am so glad you found the blog hop and are participating this year! I *love* the idea of your happiness calendar, and today I would put that I am happy for cool morning air and long summer evenings.
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Thank you, Yvonne. I really appreciate you and the other hosts for creating this blog hop. It’s good it wasn’t on my vision board. The vision board is just a way forward. It’s been really hot and humid here so I could appreciate a cool morning too.
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So great to meet you Wanda! Love that mama bear quilt and I love seeing you and your husband in your happy places 🙂 What a great bag tip too, I’ve got a couple bags that have exactly that problem and I’ve been meaning to find a way to solve that issue!
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Terri Ann, glad I could help. There are two types of coaches’ wives: those who are involved in all aspects of the team and those like me who have a hobby. It’s worked for us.
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Hello, nice to meet you! I love that Mama Bear quilt! What would be on my happiness calendar today? Probably that I’ve (nearly) got Monday out of the way!
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Hello, Wendy. Nice to meet you. Whatever makes you happy makes me happy. By the way I love the name of your blog.
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My happiness calendar is full up today. My two year old grandson is spending the day with grandma. We’ve been busy playing outside and inside, no quilting today but that’s ok in my book.
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Cindy, that’s okay in my book, too, the Happiness Book that is. Two year olds are full of energy and you can’t be sad when you are with him. Who could choose quilting over a day with grandma. You are blessed.
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Wanda, this is a wonderful post!!! You have a great smile!!! Today I was craving something really cheesy… So I went to the cafe at lunch and got a gooey grilled cheese sandwich, that’s what is on my happiness calendar today!!!
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Stephanie, you are so kind. The best sandwich ever. I bet you went right to sleep at work — funny.
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Wanda I love the approach of introducing yourself with the 10 second tour of my life!!!! I need to do that!!! Life is just too hard to explain but in collection of words it says a lot! I already feel I have things in common with you from that simple list. Wow! I am inspired by your detail and love the tip to get the tote to stand up! Never thought of that! My happiness calendar would be to complete all my drafting of pleadings so I can reward myself with time with my husband and creativity! Excellent post!
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Isn’t that something. Pleadings, makes my stomach hurt. The ten second tour also leaves out a lot of heartache and just the good highlights. I hope you’ll try it, though.
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Wanda. One more thing…. How did u get the login to ur site to. Be a social login w Facebook etc… I use WordPress and would love to know that plugin?
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I’m not quite sure what you mean by “social login.” To share my post on Facebook I got to Posts then Settings then there are two sections on Publicize and Sharing Buttons and Enabled Services. If that’s not what you mean, let me know.
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Happiness calender…a good cup of coffee with just a little cream and sugar. BTW, I had keylime pie for lunch. I follow the recipe on Nellie & Joe’s famous key lime juice. Yum!
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I’ll have to find the recipe. My last attempt at making key lime pie was less than successful.
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Your blog is gorgeous Wanda! Love getting to know you a little more. Its very hard to talk about myself too, quilting helps bridge that gap a little bit! Love your bag tip, now if I could only make bags!! Thank you for sharing!!
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Love the idea of a vision board. Great question too . On my happiness calendar today are 4 spray painted chairs – now i want to paint everything!
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Ruth, Ttat sounds like a great way to paint chairs — beats a paintbrush!
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Hello, it’s nice to meet you! I would put some quite time on my happiness calendar. I’ve been watching my grandchildren this summer. Lol!
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We all need some time alone.
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I love your quilts on the Quilt Gallery. Beautiful work! T vision board is a great idea for a focus exercise! Thanks for sharing about you!
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I love your purpose statement. What a great idea. And the happiness calendar is another great idea. Today’s entry would be: glad I bought a red tutu tonight to wear for the Epic Canadian 5K run on Saturday.
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Red tutu — sounds fabulous. I hope you’ll post photos. The Happiness Calendar is such a great way to remember the small things.
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